Creating Community

Not A Mommy is dedicated to those of us who battled infertility and/or pregnancy or infant loss and were not successful.  No rainbow babies here.  We are the other side of the story, the ones you don’t hear about, a forgotten and misunderstood part of society.  We are childless but not by choice.

Whatever the path of your journey and regardless of where you have gone since stepping off the rollercoaster of trying to conceive, we are here to give you a voice and to let you know that you are not forgotten. 

We see you, we know your pain and we are here for you.  We are a safe space, a community.



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