About Me

After seven years of fertility treatments including 3 IVFs, 2 FETs, 7 IUIs, 4 miscarriages and 3 “second opinions”, we decided it was time to stop. 

And suddenly we were alone. We weren’t in the infertility/TTC community anymore but we didn’t have kids either.

We are currently learning to navigate our new reality with our adorable (and spoiled) dog, each other (10 years married!) and the love of our family and friends. We currently reside in the frozen north (aka Canada).

We know we aren’t alone. Let’s change the conversation.

About the Blog

This blog is the combination of my experiences and feelings as well as those of my friends, colleagues, TTC community, research and more.  It’s about providing content for a community of people who are forgotten and unconsciously shamed by society.  If you are one of those people and you are offended, hurt or otherwise annoyed by my posts – let’s talk.

If you aren’t one of those people and you are offended, hurt or otherwise annoyed by my posts – don’t follow the site.  But whatever you do, don’t make it about you because then you rob us of a safe space to share.

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